Most people tend to look at marriage as hard work (which it is sometimes!) or have fallen into a pattern of doing the same things and boredom has taken over.  Too often in marriage resentment takes hold or we continually end up in arguments trying to be right.  Here are a few things you can do today to improve your marriage, without requiring anything of your spouse! 2019 edit:  Since this post was originally published, I've read and fallen in LOVE with this book.  It is the absolute BEST way to quickly improve your relationship without hassling your partner to Read The Full Story